(Is your business leading you away from your purpose? Don’t be afraid to walk away.)
Life is busy for everyone. Whether you have kids, a cat, a troublesome car or a finicky boss, a quick peek into your daily schedule most likely reveals a flurry of activity and obligations. Most people like to believe that they’re innately in tune with their own lives, but is this the truth?
The number of people young and old alike who are in search of their true purpose in life is staggering, and that leaves some to wonder, why? Sadly, many are simply too busy to be able to sit back and listen to what their own lives are saying. Life will not jump out in front of you and shake you by the shoulders, but it will speak in its own way, through patterns and accidents and even painful experiences. Ready to understand what life is saying? Narrow down the following three items and you just might find that life has been whispering to you all along:
- Patterns: The pattern in everyone’s life is unique, but it creates a unifying thread throughout a person’s existence that truly speaks to who that person is. Do you find yourself in a series of service roles? Are you always networking or gravitating toward certain types of people? Dig deep and discover the pattern that has crisscrossed its way through your timeline.
- Accidents: Okay, so you never imagined yourself taking on a summer internship, but after running into the leader of the program, she convinced you to apply. Or, that cute little coffee shop that you stumbled upon after getting lost is where you now do your best creative work. These accidents are more than just tiny blips in your life. Look back on the biggest accidents that have had the largest impact on your life thus far and find the pattern unifying them.
- Painful experiences: Joy and sadness are two sides of the same coin, and perhaps no one can truly understand the importance and impact of great experiences without going through a few painful ones. The job with the difficult boss, the business deal that dealt a blow to your career, and the relationship that distracted you from life goals are all experiences that might have been difficult and painful at the time, but they can provide profound information. Stop trying to forget those painful experiences and learn from them instead.
It is easy to become jealous of those who discovered their purpose early on in life and seem to live it every day, but avoid focusing on others and turn back to your own life. If you’re willing to listen, you may just discover that it’s been speaking to you all along.
Many experts believe that habits are made or broken in three weeks. We recommend implementing some or all of these tips for at least that amount of time in order to change some not-so-great habits that may be stealing your time during the day. Once you have read through the first installation of our helpful time-management tips, consider the following additions:
Using your time wisely can lead to higher productivity, which may lead to higher profits and better products and services. However, it also has a great deal to do with how much you respect yourself and your time. You are valuable and should respect your worth by acknowledging that every minute you devote to business should be fruitful and meaningful.
Are you still looking at the rolodex or a planner filled with emails that might not even be active anymore? Let’s get started…
Take it off the Internet. Some business owners have the type of model that does not require leaving their office chairs in order to build a network, but that is not the reality for every entrepreneur. Seek out real-world conferences and meetings for entrepreneurs and business owners and give your network the benefit of face-to-face interaction. Just remember to use your time wisely and make as many genuine connections as possible. In other words, don’t talk to the same person all night!
Monetize, monetize, monetize.
Know your numbers.
Don’t skimp on staff.
First-time entrepreneurs do not have to resign themselves to falling into these mistakes. With a bit of careful planning, the most common issues can be avoided, freeing up time and energy to focus on the problems personal to your individual business. Are you worried about what to avoid? Here are the top four avoidable mistakes:
Both new and established businesses will have a series of hurdles and mistakes with which to contend, but the easy and obvious ones can be avoided. Keep these common mistakes in mind when establishing your new business and free yourself up to focus on the big picture.
Does the word “networking” conjure images of crowded convention halls where men and women in tailored suits swap business cards? Networking has taken on a somewhat unfortunate meaning and leaves some people worried about how to foot the bill for a five-star restaurant in order to snag a single measly connection.
Make a personal connection.
Track your time spent on certain tasks. It is possible that you are spending more time on certain tasks than you realize. By keeping a log of how much time it takes you to complete daily routines, you may see that you need to adjust your schedule. If you discover that you need an hour to answer emails in the afternoon instead of 30 minutes, adjust your schedule to meet this demand.
If you need to take back control of your workday, it will take resolve and will power. It is not easy to right a ship that has been going in the wrong direction for years, but the effort to redirect your focus will reap many benefits for you, both professionally and personally.